Love is a Decision

by Dr. Gary Smalley

When you're in love, the sun shines brighter, and the birds sing sweeter. We feel warm and happy inside. But what happens when the chemicals subside and the feelings wane? When disappointments accumulate and conflicts grow deeper, what motivates us to stay and work it out?

Far from being a cosmic accident or an intense feeling, Dr. Gary Smalley contends that genuine love is a decision. Furthermore, like any worthy undertaking, it requires a plan. While that may sound less than romantic, consider the statistics on divorces.

Are you content to take your chances on 50/50 odds, or are you ready to beat the odds?