Men's Relational Toolbox

by Dr. Gary, Dr. Greg and Michael Smalley

Ever try to pound in a nail with a screwdriver?

Ever try to use a pocketknife to drill a hole?

Too often, we guys reach for the closest tool-not the right tool. It seems like a good idea at first. But then the nail refuses to budge or we refuse to look for the right tool. We treat relationships the same way, especially with the women in our lives. The problem is we reach for the tools that work well for us in our work world, but find they are often disastrous in our relationships.