Reducing and overcoming conflicts

Tape #12

• How many times have you gotten mad at someone and said, "You know what your problem is?"
• When you and your mate have an argument, do you become aggressive, or withdraw?
• Do you lose control…or do you bury your anger?

In any relationship there is bound to be conflict, but it doesn't always have to have negative consequences. With Gary's assistance, you can learn how to reduce conflicts and turn them into meaningful dialogue that can strengthen your relationship rather than destroy it. Gary has maintained that this particular session will help anyone, in any type of relationship, develop the necessary skills to "go deeper into intimacy and discover feelings and needs."

At the beginning of this session, he will illustrate the four ways conflict can be used to actually improve a relationship. In addition, he will explain how conflict arises and how your reactions can lock the door to peaceful resolutions.